http://press.emerson.edu/ploughshares/2012/02/17/knocking-off-mom-or-how-i-learned-to-stop-worrying-and-love-g-rated-murder/
I
enjoyed this article, but the author misses a fairly obvious point (in
addition to the one that I make in my comment on the article-- that all
children dream of the adventure and freedom of being an orphan, and that
is why so many kids books feature orphans as the hero/ines): mother
dying is also a metaphor for leaving behind both the completeness of the
womb and coming into this world, and also that the death of childhood
is the murder of mother and the safety she represents. Mother herself
may not need to die literally, but the idea-- the comfort, the safety--
of her must die in order for the child to find his/her own strength and
become his or her own person.
Reading this, I was also reminded of that in
encountering the supernatural and out-of-the-ordinary does not require
the death of mother. Harry Potter's parents death is not just necessary
so that he can defeat Voldemort-- in fact it is his mother's love that
creates the power over Voldemort that Harry has-- it is necessary
because otherwise he would have grown up in a magickal household. He
would have been more like Ron. Or if he had grown up in a muggle
household, Hermione. And then there is a whole other post that could be
done on the fantasy of the black sheep child, the child that is, in
fact, Harry Dursley, and how he wishes to learn that one day he is an
orphan, born of supernatural parentage, etc.
Take for instance Mary Poppins (both of these are from my old Conjurings blog).
http://conjurings.blogspot.com/2007/10/mary-poppins-spoonful-of-sugar.html
http://conjurings.blogspot.com/2008/06/pl-travers-magickal-mary-poppins.html
is it too late to make my kids orphans? or put them up for adoption?
ReplyDeleteLOL it might be a bit late for that... Maybe a Nanny Poppins?
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